When Do We Have To Send Wedding Presents?

This is one information that will be helpful to you when giving presents to newly weds. What’s good about knowing the couple first before heading out to buy gifts is that you would know what they would really want to receive on their wedding.

There are couples who will be married the first time. The process of looking for the right gift is a bit hard if you do not have any personal relationship with the couple who are getting married. Giving a gift for the newly weds has been a tradition that has been brought on by our ancestors centuries ago. Although you have to give a gift, it doesn’t mean you have to spend a fortune. What’s important is that you remembered to prepare something for the two on their special day.

Make sure that you do your little research prior to giving gifts to couples who may not be new to getting married. Actually being in the wedding celebration is enough for these couples. Remember that whatever you present the couple will be treasured for you have sincerely offered them something on their special day. There are couples who request for gift envelopes instead. You may also share with other friends if you want to give an expensive gift for the two.

There are couples however who would like a separate gift for the bride and the groom. Guests who are underage are not really required to give any gifts. There’s no need to bring any gift, if you were just invited by a friend to attend the wedding and not by the couple themselves.

Effective Public Speaking Skill – Using a Joke Format to Add Humor to your Presentations

Adding humour to your speech or presentation can be beneficial because it helps you to connect with your listeners (most people like to laugh and be entertained) and it can help them more easily remember your message.

The purpose of this article is not to turn you into a comedian. It’s just to present you with some ways to add a little humour to your speech.

With that in mind here are two fast and simple, down and dirty formats for including humour in your next speech or presentation.

The first is called: “Joke Format”

This details a way in which you can format street jokes (jokes that friends might tell you in a bar) together to form a comedy monologue like old school comedians, like Bob Hope or Jack Benny. Here’s the format:

1) Put the 2nd funniest joke first

2) End with the funniest joke

3) Counter a good joke with a bad one.

4) Organize jokes according to theme.

Now, I’m not saying that they used this format, I used Hope and Benny as an example of the style of comic that might have used this approach. Although, I have to say, the “counter a good joke with a bad one” seems more in-keeping with the comedy format of old school comics, rather than modern stand-ups. I think today’s comedy professionals try to have continuous funny lines. This particular point seems to indicate a groaner type of joke, like a pun.

But just to remind you the purpose of this article is not to turn you into a comedian. You don’t have to worry about that.

That said, I don’t think there’s anything necessarily wrong with using such a funny line in a speech, providing of course that it ties in with your overall topic and it doesn’t offend anyone overtly. Some people might be offended by a groaner joke, but that’s too bad. It makes you come across as human because we don’t always come out with incredible zingers like they do in sitcoms.

The other format is called the “Message Format”. There are two types for this format:

A)

Intro

2nd Funniest joke

Main body of Jokes

Theme

Funniest Joke

With the second one being as follows:

B)

Intro

Funniest joke

Other Jokes

Theme

This last one ends on a serious note instead of a laugh. Personally, if I’m doing a humorous speech I’d rather end on a laugh. But that’s just my personal taste.

What you might consider doing is reducing your actual speech or presentation by about a third or even a half. Keep the core details that are necessary to convey your message to your audience. So what do you replace the edited content with?

Humour. Funny stories, funny jokes, maybe you could quote other comedians or witty people as long as you give credit where it’s due. There’s no sense delivering a line by Woody Allen in your presentation and passing it off as your own. There will always be someone who can attribute it to the original author, plus it’s highly unethical.

Not only that but by saying something like: “as Woody Allen once said…” you can immediately get your audience into a better state to laugh as they’ll remember their favourite Woody Allen moment. Then if the line doesn’t have everyone rolling in the aisles then you can get out of it by saying, “obviously it’s much better when Woody did it”. Your listeners will love you all the more then because you will have revealed yourself to be slightly vulnerable.

You would have to judge for yourself what you think is appropriate. I would have to guess that it may be better for you to end on a comment about your overall theme. What are you trying to convey to your audience? What’s the take home message that you want them to walk away from your speech remembering?

If you can follow some of these pointers in your next speech you’ll be well on your way to being remembered for your humorous speeches and you’ll get people congratulating you afterwards because you made them laugh and in their eyes you just became the star.

Teaching Sudents to Be Present for Yoga Practice

The practice of yoga is meant to calm both the body and the mind. With slow movements and a focus on breath, we learn to quiet the mind and focus on the present moment. Most often, we need to be calm enough to handle the stresses of daily life, regret over past actions, and worries about the future. It is easier than it sounds to think only of the present moment. Our minds wander quickly, and thoughts tend to “snowball” toward worst case scenarios. When our minds are in an anxious state and we forget about the present, we may notice our breath quickens and our heart beats faster. Whatever we are doing in the present is quickly forgotten.

To counter this snowball effect and to become calm and develop awareness, we must learn to be in the present. This starts with a focus on the breath. Yoga posturing is a physical practice of the body’s core and limbs, which work alongside the breath. In a Vinyasa style class, as students move from one position to the next, the yoga instructor will note whether to breathe in or out, for example: “breathe in, upward-facing dog, breathe out, downward-facing dog,” and so on. Breathing in this way with each posture allows the body to flow easier and gentler through the positions. This method is especially valuable for beginners who may feel that some of the movements are difficult to master at first. Adding the breath makes each position flow into the next and provides a fluidity that could not be achieved otherwise.

Additionally, controlled breathing helps practitioners to be present while they practice flowing through the postures (asanas). When you are thinking about breathing in and breathing out, you cannot also think about the fight you had with your sister last week or the yard work that needs to get done. The practice of yogic breathing teaches our students to be mindful. Being mindful means simply observing what is happening in the present moment; not trying to escape it by thinking of the past or future and not criticizing it, but simply observing it.

Here’s an Easy Way to Explain it to Your Students

We think too much as humans, and our minds need a rest from our racing thoughts, so as you breathe in and then out and move from upward-facing dog into downward-facing dog, for example, think to yourself: “I am breathing in, upward-facing dog, I am breathing out, downward-facing dog.” These are not random thoughts, but observations of the present moment. You are being present. You are being mindful. You are in the here and now, aware of others practicing alongside you, aware of the instructor’s voice, aware of the feel of the mat beneath you, your muscles as they stretch into position.

Remember, thinking about other moments in time is not bad. We must be able to learn from the past and plan for the future; but we must not forget the most important time: the present.

The Yogic Concept: I Am

The concept of “I am” is meant to help those who are participating in an activity designed to develop the mind’s focus, in order to participate in meditation successfully. It is essential that anyone who is interested in pursuing yoga understand that the practice will not be as fulfilling, unless the mind is trained.The “I am” concept is designed to help the student better focus on the self. More importantly, it is vital that the only sense of focus be in the moment, rather than allowing the mind to race from one thought to the next. In order for yogic methodology to work well within the human body, as well as the mind, it is imperative that the student learn how to successfully deal with the stresses that normally occur throughout daily life. Otherwise, it would be virtually impossible to focus on the Eight Limbs of Patanjali’s teachings (The Yoga Sutras).

Students who are practicing yoga must be able to focus on the body and control the thoughts of the mind while they are engaged in yogic practices. It is essential to control the breath and steady the mind long enough to allow one to reach a state of self-realization. Otherwise the student is merely going through the motions without any real concept of the deeper meaning of practicing yoga. In order to maximize the benefits that can come from its practice, students alike must make a conscious effort to remain focused in their thoughts.

In its purest form, yoga is a meditative exercise involving mind, body, and spirit. It combines the most effective elements of its many methods to help students develop physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. Many practitioners find that they are able to develop spiritually as a result of learning the “I am” concept and practicing it on a regular basis. The ability to center one’s mind and focus only on the here and now is one of the most important things that anyone can do to improve his or her overall health. In addition, a great deal of insight can be gained regarding an individual’s ability to excel in life, even in the face of challenges.